Abraham sent his chief servant to find a wife for Isaac. It was important that Isaac’s wife come from the same family… those who God had set apart in a covenant in order to bless the world. The servant travelled back to the land that Abraham and Sarah had left behind so many years before. The Lord guided him to a beautiful young virgin named Rebekah as she took water from the village well. He knew she was the one for Isaac, and so he gave her bracelets of precious gold and asked to be taken back to her home. She ran ahead and told her mother everything that had happened during her time at the well.
Rebekah’s brother, Laban, heard what happened, too. He saw the expensive gold bracelets and the nose ring, and he knew that this stranger was a making a serious marriage offer for his sister. He went out to meet Abraham’s servant at the well. “‘Come, you are blessed by the Lord,’” he said. “‘Why are you standing out here? I have prepared the house and a place for your camels.’”
Nahor’s family treated Abraham’s chief servant very well. They brought him into the house and washed his feet and the feet of his men. As they set supper out for him to eat, he stopped them and said, “‘I will not eat until I have told you what I have to say.’” The importance of this meeting was too great! He did not want to wait another minute until he had settled everything.
“‘The LORD has blessed my master abundantly, and he has become wealthy. He has given him sheep and cattle, silver and gold, menservants and maidservants, and camels and donkeys. My master’s wife Sarah has borne him a son in her old age, and he has given him everything he owns. And my master made me swear an oath, and said, ‘You must not get a wife for my son from the daughters of the Canaanites, in whose land I live, but go to my father’s family and to my own clan, and get a wife for my son.’”
“‘Then I asked my master, ‘What if the woman will not come back with me?’
“‘He replied, The Lord, before whom I have walked, will send His angel with you and make your journey a success, so that you can get a wife for my son from my own clan, you will be released from my oath even if they refuse to give her to you-you will be released from my oath.’
Then the servant told them how he had come into their town. He told how he had prayed that God would show him who the right girl was by having her offer not only to give him a drink of water, but by offering to water his camels. He explained how that was exactly what Rebekah did. God had answered his prayer very clearly. And after journeying for days over many miles, the girl the LORD had brought him was the granddaughter of Abraham’s brother!
Abraham’s servant told the whole story, making sure they understood how God had guided him to Rebekah. Then he said, “‘Now if you will show kindness and faithfulness to my master, tell me; and if not, tell me, so I may know which way to turn.’”
Laban and Rebekah’s mother Bethuel said, “‘This is from the LORD, we can say nothing to you one way or the other. Here is Rebekah, take her and go, and let her become the wife of your master’s son, as the LORD has directed.’”
When the servant heard that he would be allowed to bring this beautiful, chosen daughter to be Isaac’s wife, he bowed down before the LORD, rejoicing at His goodness. This was all the work of God, who designed everything with such care for His chosen ones.
The servant got up from his praise to the LORD and began to celebrate by bringing out the great riches given to him by Abraham to pour out on Rebekah, the bride, and her family. Rebekah was given treasures of gold and silver jewelry and beautiful clothes to wear as the wife of Isaac. Her family received lavish and beautiful gifts as well as they prepared to say goodbye to their beloved child and sister.
The next morning, Abraham’s servant asked to leave and return to Abraham with Isaac’s new bride. But they did not want to see her go so soon. They knew they would probably never see her again. “‘Let the girl remain with us ten days or so; then you may go,’” they said.
But the servant was ready to return. “‘Do not detain me, now that the LORD has granted success to my journey. Send me on my way so I may go to my master.’”
They said, “‘Let’s call the girl and ask her about it.’” They called for Rebekah and asked her if she would go with Abraham’s servant right away or not.
Rebekah said, “‘I will go.’” Wow. What stunning faith! While her family was reluctant, she was bold. And so they sent her on her way. The nurse that had raised her since she was a little girl went along with her, as did several other maidservants from the house. She was not alone as she journeyed towards the home of Abraham and Isaac. As she left, her family said;
“‘Our sister, may you increase
to thousands upon thousands;
may your offspring possess
the gates of their enemies.’”
Consider the courage of Rebekah! She left everything she knew to go with a host of strange men to marry a groom she had never met! On and on they journeyed across wilderness and desert through regions Rebekah had never seen before. One evening, as the caravan of Abraham’s servant was getting close to home, Isaac was sitting out in the middle of a field. It was evening, and he was meditating. Out in the distance, he saw camels coming towards him. It was a caravan. He got up and started walking towards it. Rebekah was on one of those camels, and as they crossed the field, she looked up and saw a man standing there. It was Isaac. She climbed down from her camel and said, “‘Who is that man in the field coming the field.’”
The servant answered, “‘He is my master.’”
Rebekah realized that this was the man she was about to marry. She covered her face with a veil.
The servant told Isaac all that had happened. Isaac took her into his tent. He married Rebekah and lifted her veil to look upon the girl that God had prepared just for him. The Bible says: “‘She became his wife, and he loved her; and Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death.’”